Not gona leave ..

Say there is a husband n wife they have been separated for several weeks no n they do not speak to each other .. But still living under the same roof .. The boys family have all tried to convince the girl to work it out but she says it’s not gon work n I deserve to be happy .. The guy feels that way to but he s wiling to work on a solution if the girl shows some initiative which she is not. He has moved out of his room n sleeping on sofa downstairs .. She has the room with attached bath to herself. She refused to do the housework when they were still together but now she does it sometimes I think so she doesn’t feel guilty for staying for free.

Shea looking for job n got called to interviews .. Eats n sleeps at the guys house .. The boys parents and sis pick n drop her to places he needs to go like school n when she goes out for dinner n movies with god knows who bcd she doesn’t tell them .. She s also opened secret fb accoun n keeps it hidden from boy n talks on done wid someone n when she feels hers him coming he tries to hide it n put tv volume up .. She Said she hates him n does not want to contue th marriage but he has to keep her cuz she has nowhere to go ..
The family does no feel like throwing out an alone Larki onto streets .. N even forced son to give back ring to her in th beginning when they felt there was a chanc that th marriage oulbe saved

Question is is it right to keep her in the house .. Having all the Ravi rites n luxuries a daughter in law would when she never fonez him .. Sometimes hez waited thinking she might fone him at work to try to reconcile .. N she physically assaulted him before that’s y he cannot stay in the room .. N when he threatened to call police she said you call them n watch who wins .. N before in a joke she has threatened to scratch herself to show police that but he knows he cannot ever touch her evn in anger bcd he does not want to get in trouble with police .. He feels she fights to instigate him ..

But she’s fine with the family n they r sleeping in separate rooms now n stopped talking to each other .. So hoe does the family go about getting her to leave bcd they r too nice to throw her out forcefully .. Wherevwill she go n what will she do sinc he refuses to go back to her home country . Sh told the boy I will go if u py for my zeperate living arrangement otherwise no im not going anywhere this ismy life .. I’m here now .. Bla bla

What should they do ? Boy is running out of patience n family is hurt at her outright refusal to reconcile with him n go on wid marriage .

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dump her ass…and get it over with…

PS…you got a lot of time on your hands soni…:salute:

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Stop judging her Soni. She is just being classy and fabulous.

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Oh that is obnoxious. She has no right to live there anymore.

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Soni why are you torturing that family. Izzat se challi jao.

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She should get herself knocked up on purpose to make her position permanent in the family

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I can't stop laughing at this :D

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I don’t understand why are you so bothered with the “she” and her “husband” in your thread :konfused:

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Because Soni is the he. :D

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^^ or because the male in this story is the married man who likes soni and now told soni this story about his wife and how she doesnt want to leave him.

:rotfl:

R they divorced? If not, y? Where is her family? Then guy’s family should talk to them about their psycho daughter

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Boy should grow some spine. Get the girls parents involved, if nothing is happening. Divorce her.

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Man and his family is being stupid here, seriously..! Kick her and find a good girl for you & live your rest life, peacefully!! He deserves it! infact every individual on earth deserves to live happily!! Zada nakhre utha ke sar p charhaliya hay!!

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LOL :omg:

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Send her back home.

One way ticket booked - Tick
At Airport - Tick
Tell authorities - Tick
Haq Mehr - Tick

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does the husband belong to the category of men who is attracted to the ones who doesn't treat them well?

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o please it's the family in concern's business and what I do not understand is who is divulging this sob story to you? the boy? he isn't so innocent after all if this is the case, going and crying about his issues to his "gal pals"

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Whats up with long posts there days? insan ko pehley hee kum problems hain jo aab life 1 k problems bhi 2...3...4..5 paragraphs long honey lagey hain :(

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plus soni, please go out and mingle with SINGLE guys, rather than listening to the sob stories of the married ones. there is always a reason why a marriage falls apart and it isn't as black and white as "the girl was bad" or "the boy was bad". kindly do yourself a favor, every morning when you brush your teeth or whatever look in the mirror and repeat to yourself ten times over:
*I deserve to be with a man who is SINGLE and NOT a divorcee.
*

There are major self esteem issues with you I note from all your previous posts, perhaps you feel you are not good enough for a "zero meter" model

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divorce situation question
falling in love with married man with kids
he’s not married .. he engaged
Who would u choose ? .. N y ? ..
and nowNot gona leave ..