Re: Not being able to make decisions because your MIL has to-does it ever change?
Ma Mooli; sadly it’s true. He would rather others made decisions and he hides behind them. He was never this weak before he was married; in fact even my Mother has said he was the one the one everyone avoided speaking to about Bull etc as he wouldn’t take crap from anyone. He wasn’t the type of individual you would think class as someone you can control. Nevermind his Mother clearly understands how to. I’ve discovered he’s a weak person. Being married to a weak individual grates at you no end and then you start doubting yourself.
I haven’t emailed him; although my MIL is unable to actually read English in any shape or form. My BIL is the one that sets her up on the PC to torture us. She can read Urdu but cannot speak it fluently. I would have wrote in English but knowing my luck he would have forwarded the email to my trouble making Mamu so he could translate it to my MIL and her sisters.
We still haven’t talked about the situation. I’m assuming he’s coming up with reasons to why everything is in my head.