Not being able to make decisions because your MIL has to-does it ever change?

[Paheli00]

Re: Not being able to make decisions because your MIL has to-does it everd change?

@Princess1983

We’ve had a chat; and basically he’s stormed out. I didn’t shout I spoke calmly about the situ. Maybe he will return and decide to talk like an adult? Or maybe he’s on the phone to his Mother asking for her to fix it. Whichever he chooses I’ve made it clear I am not happy in the situ; it’s unacceptable and the behaviour will not be tolerated towards my children. End of story. As far as I am concerned I have tried my best to fit into the larger family however it hasn’t worked out. I hope my husband completes his duties towards his family and children. As for me well we shall see if he plans to actually stick around.

Its sad that your husband is unable to handle your concerns regarding the marriage like an adult. Looks like things will get even worse before they get better. Stay strong! You will make your own life better and will get to a place where you’re happy…with or without his cooperation. BTW, please save your money as much as possible b/c you’ll definitely need it if it comes to a point where you need to move out. Getting a job…even a part-time job isn’t an option right now is it?