not attracted ..

[queer]

Re: not attracted ..

do you think its because your skin isnt fair enough?

[Ashy2010]

Re: not attracted ..

You said na k love marriage mein shadi tu ho jati hai and that is what i didnt like cuz shadi ho jaana sirf koi baat nahi.

Yaar I was being sarcastic... since we are going through the arranged route and stuck... hum se achay tau wo hain who went for love marriages... thora phadda hoa... magar shadi tau hogayi :D

I agreee.... sirf is liye shadi thori kerni hai to get a label of MARRIED.... Love or arranged, both has pros and cons and issues associated with them and the decision has to be thought of carefully...

[ShahreyarKhan]

Re: not attracted ..

@Ashy2010

SK, If a ‘suitable’ guy approaches me, I will definitely refer him to my parents. Unfortunately, not enough ‘suitable’ Pakistanis found in my circle.

So arranged is the route for me :halo:

you didnt try GS (there is a dedicated thread i came across), did you?

@ZareenKhan

Ashy, let me find a guy for you and you find one for me lol.

good idea

[Ashy2010]

Re: not attracted ..

@ZareenKhan

Ashy, let me find a guy for you and you find one for me lol.

We have such a good compatibility and understanding… agar main larka hoti tau I would have proposed you But then you would have to live abroad :halo: Aur tum inkaar ker deti… and then I would become clingy… and then you would have opened a thread k aik banda mere peechey par gaya

[Pakilarka]

Re: not attracted ..

@queer

you are confusing buying gai bakri with finding a bride. but in some parts of the world, this is the same deal..

@ShahreyarKhan

buddy you may take 1-2 meetings and 1-2 weeks to decide on gai bakri,

i dont

LOL

LOL !

[Ashy2010]

Re: not attracted ..

@ShahreyarKhan

you didnt try GS (there is a dedicated thread i came across), did you?

No I didn’t… And I don’t want to… My mom is taking care of the things… Arranged is the only option for me :halo:

[ShahreyarKhan]

Re: not attracted ..

joke of the day, isnt it? lols

@Pakilarka

LOL !

[ZareenKhan]

Re: not attracted ..

@Ashy2010

We have such a good compatibility and understanding… agar main larka hoti tau I would have proposed you But then you would have to live abroad :halo: Aut tum inkaar ker deti… and then I would become clingy… and then you would have opened a thread k aik banda mere peechey par gaya

LOL!

Ashy, you are too sweet i am sure aisa koi scene hota tu i would have been able to convince you to move back home :p. Now too bad that neither of us is a guy :p.

[STA]

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@ShahreyarKhan

^ I must be living on a diff planet

i was thinking it would be as simple as finding, going, meeting once twice, deciding within week or two, …

finding is the part where it may take long

finding a potential larka/larki is tough part in rishta process. rest of the things are quite easy(going, meeting once twice, deciding.).

@inspiron

The rishta process is much easier for gus than girls

yeh kis nay kaha.

@Ashy2010

We have such a good compatibility and understanding… agar main larka hoti tau I would have proposed you But then you would have to live abroad :halo: Aur tum inkaar ker deti… and then I would become clingy… and then you would have opened a thread k aik banda mere peechey par gaya

mashaAllah mera bhai(ashy2010) buhat acha hota. ZK ko aik dam sahi kar datia.

[ShahreyarKhan]

Re: not attracted ..

:D mashaAllah mera bhai(ashy2010) buhat acha hota. ZK ko aik dam sahi kar datia. ;)

are you saying ZK ko sahee kernay ki zaroorat hai? :O

[Exodus]

Re: not attracted ..

@Ashy2010

Arranged is the only option for me :halo:

Or probably the preferred one for you. Besides, what does the end emoticon denote down to again?

[inspiron]

Re: not attracted ..

what I dont understand is how some people can agree to shaadi after just one meeting :/

[Exodus]

Re: not attracted ..

^ Magic. :D

[Pakilarka]

Re: not attracted ..

joke of the day, isnt it? lols

Joke of the week for me !

[STA]

Re: not attracted ..

are you saying ZK ko sahee kernay ki zaroorat hai? :O

kidding. ;)

what I dont understand is how some people can agree to shaadi after just one meeting :/

Yes, It happens if and only if both parties are pre-determined and serious.

[ShahreyarKhan]

Re: not attracted ..

no no dont back away now

kidding. ;)

Yes, It happens if and only if both parties are pre-determined and serious.

[inspiron]

Re: not attracted ..

but in 1 meeting you dont know anything about them but yet you agree to spend your life with them?

[Pakilarka]

Re: not attracted ..

what I dont understand is how some people can agree to shaadi after just one meeting :/

I know people who decided to get married without actually meeting.

Example : Shoaib Malik | Ayesha Siddiquie

[ZareenKhan]

Re: not attracted ..

@inspiron

what I dont understand is how some people can agree to shaadi after just one meeting

shayed unhe, kuch kuch hoya ho?!

On a serious note, some people just are too sure of what they want and they do their homework so once it all tallies they follow with a quick yes. To be honest, such quick haans really scare me and make me run but a part of me wishes i had this ability to make my decisions that fast. I am not saying we shouldnt think it through but buhat zyada bhi ulajna nahi chahiye.

Hai, bari muski hai .

[inspiron]

Re: not attracted ..

I think it is silly to agree to marriage after 1 meeting makes me think that daal mey kuch kala hai