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Right on.
On a serious note, some people just are too sure of what they want and they do their homework so once it all tallies they follow with a quick yes.
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what i think is silly is not making up your mind sooner and then freaking out later
I think it is silly to agree to marriage after 1 meeting makes me think that daal mey kuch kala hai
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In the previous generation ppl got married without even meeting 
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but in 1 meeting you dont know anything about them but yet you agree to spend your life with them?
lets make it simple case, both families in contact for several month. one day they decided tea party where both gal and guy could sea each other and communicate/get to know.
these kind of **hans **usually happen in traditional families(keep in mind, meeting could either lead nah too). so it is very simple model of rishta.
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you three know so much about marriages etc, how do you guys manage to stay single so long? or are you some kind of celibate monks withholding saxxxx?
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who 3 ? 
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the goats.
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no STA i mean without the previous contact.
e.g. woman came to see me here for literally 30 mins and her son came too and next day they phoned saything they are ready for mangni
I found it hilarious but thats how many of my cousins got married!
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, no initial contact and then immediate Yes. either they really like you or something fishy at their end.
in that case, your parents do investigate and if everything is ok then why not(if you are also ok with guy).
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nevamind....
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i will never say yes after just a 30 minute meet :/ even if education and job checks out
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inspi: jaisay app ki marzi. i was sharing my pov. 
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lol buddy you took that goat joke to heart
the goats.
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^ just to clear the confusion, you (a gurl) aint the only thing they look at.
ppl look at girl, mother, sisters, father, home setup, etc. etc.
and when you converse you can get more information like brought up, manners, teachings, etc. etc.
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lol. yeh to hadd hi hogaye. at least, in case of inspi, aunty was intended to see her and in your she turned her intention to baat pakki. 
SK: you are quite right.
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weather is good today
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Hmm, you remind of someone, Soni27.
Hmmmmmm some more.