Not a Dilemma....Just give Ur Opinion

Lifestyle Relationships
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I have been asked by a guppy for this thread coz he does not want to be identified.

He and a guppan have been interacting through this forum (PMs) for few months and have come to know quite a bit about each other. The guppy is confused about the relationship coz he says whenever he tries to get serious about the relationsip, guppan backs off, so he felt she is not interested, so he backed off too. But after sometime she starts PMs again.

What shud he do?

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Re: Not a Dilemma....Just give Ur Opinion

simple: ask her straight forwardly whether she is interested or not. if he is that smitten and she rejects him, then back off or else, it will be a start of a GS love story :)

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Re: Not a Dilemma....Just give Ur Opinion

IM SOO NOT FALLING FOR IT THIS TIME!!

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Re: Not a Dilemma....Just give Ur Opinion

is this seious or a joke again ????????

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LOL, Im thinking the SAME thing CE!!!

Icono, are you serious here or is this about how you bumped into your 17th wife in LR and dnt know what to do now???

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Re: Not a Dilemma....Just give Ur Opinion

LOL, He has been crying wolf so many times that nobody believes him now.

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Re: Not a Dilemma....Just give Ur Opinion

teen teen, doo doo, chaar chaar
mujh ko ho gyaa hai PM pyaar

(Inspired by Nazia Hasan's Telephone Pyar)

Ask that guppy to activate PM forwarding to my inbox :)

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Re: Not a Dilemma....Just give Ur Opinion

^ lol. Hahahahhahahhaha.

May be the Guppan will read this thread and usko sab samajh mein ajayga usko kya karna chahiye!

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Wo gappan itnee aqalmand hotee tu baat yahaan tak keyun pohanchtee :)

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Somehow I have a feeling she is more aqalmand than the Guppy himself. Think about it - us nay Guppy ko kis tarha confused kar kay rakha huwa hai - she’s definitely smarter than him!

Thread larkey nay khulwaya hai, larki nay nahi. Kon zada aqalmand huwa phir? :snooty:

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:omg: :omg:

Usse Naraz Kar bethe
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Our beloved Prophet peace be upon him said that when two people are alone in a room (or talking on the phone, or online for that matter), then Shaytaan will always accompany them, even if you try your hardest to stay chaste in what you are saying, there is no blessing, because allah and His messenger forbade that. I am 100% sure that friendship between a girl and a boy is NOT allowed in islam. (Ref: Quran & Hadith)

The Quran and teaching of Prophet Muhammad show us that women and men are to be seperated. They do not gather together. There should be as little interaction between the two as possible. Of course business and school are different IF it is REQUIRED to have this interaction but it should remain minimal. Remember, the shataan is always the third party!

However in today's western society some Muslims see it acceptable and others only to a certain extent. Yet at university or college most Muslims will have friends of the opposite sex but many will limit that relationship in that they may not spend a lot of time with them outside school etc. So basically it's up to the individual what they want to do as although it would be perfect if we all followed Islam completely, some of us don't.

Personally, I have friends at College and Work but DO NOT socialise with them outside of that. For that I stick to my female friends!

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I am assuming you meant you are 100% sure that it's not allowed?

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Oye Mirch tenooN merey thread tey enniyaaN mirchaaN kiyouN lagdiyaaN neiN

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Ofcourse its a joke, what else are all these stupid threads in Life

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Oye puttar mainoon mirchain lagdee tay main hasda kion ?

:smilestar:

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thanks straight up.....yeh i mean its NOT allowed....

Cafe Mafia
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Re: Not a Dilemma....Just give Ur Opinion

I know another couple, guppan get mad at poor dude.

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:hehe:

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That guppy must have done something for the guppan to be upset and vanish!

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