What do you think if your spouse keeps something from past in his or her possesion…or you find it one day, from his/her past life, relation or marriage etc? What would you do?
Pictures, letters, different items/gifts…
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**“WOW you have a box as well ?..Me too …me too!!!” **
Then you just pull out your own little black box of “pictures, letters, different items/gifts”…and fondly tell your spouse about the magical story behind each picture, letter, different item/gift." Pretend you’re on Oprah’s couch and reminisce about former flames.
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i think people should get rid of their old stuff whn they get into a new relationship ... thats just my own two cents
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I like to keep the memories of the people that I am still in love with like my own families pics, my grand-nani's paandan, a piece of cloth that my daadi took to her first haj..
People who are no longer part of my life, what is the use of trying to remember them.
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From previous relationship I had perfume and some jewellery and some fluffy toys.. It didnt cross my mind to get rid of them, but my other half clocked when i wore the perfume and asked me when i got it, i confessed it was frm a ex, and he made me chuck all of the stuff away, and i think he has all the right. He made a good point too as in whats the point keeping that dont i buy you things?!. So i did a clear out and thru everything. Its pointless to keep on to past relations there gone for a reason (unless they died thats a different story)
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Yes we all keep items from our exes..its called baggage :)