I got mine pierced when I was 14. Against me mam’s wishes. I actually remember her slap across my face hurting more than getting it pierced. She hated it, said it was an awful thing to do for a lass so young. I loved it. Made me feel dead grown up.
I only ever wore L shaped studs in it and I would ALWAYS lose them as I would forget to take them out at night. I took it out when my mum passed away and have only worn a stud 3 or 4 times at weddings since. The most annoying thing is that the hole won’t close and it’s actually quite noticable, expecially in pictures.