That's cos it doesn't take a lot to make a man happy lol, women are more complex!
Trust me, there are MANY things that can bug men about their wives, but we simply ignore. I am sure there are exceptions.
From your post, i got the impression that you are indeed a male. I thought, for some reason that you were a female. You are right - men do not do things like write letters, go on forums, complaining about their wives or even talk about their wives to their friends. Why? They tend to deal with it in other ways. Ways that are not so nice. A husband, especially in our culture - a husband who, for whatever reason isnt happy with his wife uses a different method to deal with it. They complain about the food, the kids, the house being messy - they are vocal to their wife about what they are not happy about and they have the expectation of the wife, that she has to understand what he wants from her or "else" if she doesnt provide, there is the notion that is that it will get nasty and when it does, it usually ends with violence. By that I mean wife beatings or even killing her, in laws ganging up on her, so on and so forth. Now, bearing this in mind, wouldnt it be 'nicer' for the man to open up a forum and start a thread to get 'advise'? They dont. They dont work like that.
I am sorry but that's nonsense. First of all, I didn't see the word "exceptions" in your reply. Which means that you are implying that ALL men work that way which is not true. Yes, I am a male, and I am married. There are things that sometimes bug me about my wife, but I IGNORE and look for the better things in her. Most men work like that. A man would not get violent just because the food isn't cooked properly. Those women that are victims of violence are not innocent. I am not saying it's entirely their fault, but come on, a man would not get violent for minor reasons. If he does, then the problem is much worse because he needs mental help. I don't want to get into a discussion about domestic violence.
Again, most men don't like to complain (especially to others) about their wives while I see women complaining about their husbands. Why? Because there are BETTER/MORE IMPORTANT things for us to do (i.e. providing for the family, running the house etc.) than sit there and wonder why my wife doesn't look like Aishwarya or why my wife isn't as romantic as such and such person. These things are important to men, but not as important as others. Women, on the other hand, have different needs and desires. IF men don't expect their wives to behave like men do, then women shouldn't expect their husbands to behave like women do (i.e. romantic).