You can have your wedding any day of the year you want to... muharram ho ya na ho.
These are complications that people have created in their lives, it doesn't mean you have to follow along.
No day of the year is bad or unfortunate or sad or unlucky, these are the days created for humans and they should be treated as such. These days come and go EVERY year... it is foolish and unfortunate that people have used tragic events in Islamic history to prevent us from doing things that we want to do.
Now, if you want to move your wedding back or ahead OUT OF RESPECT then do so at your own will, Islamicaly your not required to postpone.
Clearly, you and I agree 100%.
By the way jaan leva, aren't you on facebook? I've seen ur name in groups i am in a bunch of times.:p