No Understanding between Partners !!!

[imtiz]

@Mirch

There is no light at the end of tunnel.
Kids who are raised in a dysfunctional family will be losers and will not grow up to be mentally and emotionally stable adults . If marriage counseling , behavior counseling , psychologists and psychiatrists have been tried to put this dysfunctional family on track . It is time to break it for the well being of the kids.

Like i mentioned in one of my posts earlier, these professional services are not available here in PK not that i am aware of any…

From inside of me I feel that this guy is cheating on his wife and looking for an excuse to divorce her or marry some other woman while keeping this marriage too. I do not believe that someone who is so productive member of society will be so dumb that he cannot solve the issues at home. If he is so successful outside his home why can’t he use the same skills to make sure that his family life is also peaceful and free of any issues. why can’t he be so successful at home ? what is stopping him ?

i can’t really say what is in his mind but at least me and aunty ( his mother) are not aware of any other woman… why he is such a failure inside home? hmmmm could it be that his wife is not listening to repetitive suggestions? if he had to leave her why linger on for so long?

[Reha]

@imtiz

Like i mentioned in one of my posts earlier, these professional services are not available here in PK not that i am aware of any…

i can’t really say what is in his mind but at least me and aunty ( his mother) are not aware of any other woman… why he is such a failure inside home? hmmmm could it be that his wife is not listening to repetitive suggestions? if he had to leave her why linger on for so long?

He is lingering because of his kids and because divorce is not easy to get. Division of property, technicalities, money, child support, visitation, custody battles, embarassment, etc. Its A LOT harder than it looks. He isnt doing some sort of community service or sacrifice by staying with her…he is doing his job as a father and husband.

[sadzzz]

Re: No Understanding between Partners !!!

make the wife feel loved.

She needs to be appreciated, for even little things and then Inshallah things will turn around.

I am sure ur friend has a genuine reason to be stressed… but providing maids and things like that isnt the solution. Maybe he needs to give her some quality time and make her feel loved for her to want to do something in return as well.