imtiz
August 4, 2010, 4:21pm
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u said it all by ur self…twins 10 months old…do u think its easy to manage them???n look at the guy’s complaints…begum twins ko sambhalay ya kapray istari karay ya parents ko tyme pe khana dai…come on…he should compromise over some stuff too…trust me ppl at old become kids as well…they start feeling things more than what actually is…maybe the parents demand more???he should get some one to look after the parents full time…man its not easy to manage a home with three kids (two twins), parents and hubby…the husband should be more flexible in his behavior and dealing…n fat wife …the dude has no respect at all for his wife…she has given birth to twins who are not even an yr old and look at him saying her fat…what he wants???he wants her to become aishwarya overnight???n if he had felt things werent working WHY they went for more babies???now if ur friend leaves his wife now…he would find some partner for himself (men do…a dilemma but true) but what about his wife???do u think any one would marry a woman with three kids???i think if he should work on saving his married life…if her wife feels that she cannot take care of his parents for the time being…then either find an extra maid or if he has other siblings then any one of them can take care of them for sometime until things get better!!!
My own uncle has three kids and was undergoing the same circumstances…although we have seen her wife misbehaving with everyone…giving a damn about their age or relation…she has literally verbally abused his brothers and relatives…but just for the sake of kids…he is still tolerating her and has made her contacts less with his relatives because wife is not ready to compromise and they have three kids…two daughters and a son…so sometimes u have to choose and compromise over things when the other party is stubborn to save ur marriage…rest it depends whats going on in his mind!
Like i said earlier he loves the kids so as far as i know he wont call it a day in his right mind. but do you think that the example that you have given is the way to go about life? I mean shouldn’t she be compromising a bit too? after all, its her kids too…
I know your uncle has done just the right thing by giving priority to his kids happiness over his own and i feel this might be the way his life go on.