No Understanding between Partners !!!

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@Reha

So his major complaints are about food and his parents? That his food isnt ready on time, clothes arent ironed and his parents are not getting enough attention from her?

And he has 3 kids he leaves with her all day long?

And his elderly parents are also her responsibility?

Along with the cooking, cleaning and serving him?

What are the maid’s responsibilities? Looking after the kids? Housework? His parents? What does the maid do?

I guess I dont really see the big deal here…if his clothes arent ironed…tell him to iron them himself. Whats so wrong about that? Does he know how to operate a microwave? Why can he not pop a plate in the microwave and warm up his food? She has 3 kids to handle, his parents and the house. She has a maid, yes. However, how much work do you think the maid does? She doesnt do all of it while his wife just sits there stuffing her face and getting fat.

He has to learn how to do his part…it seems like its actually HIM thats lacking and trying to burden his wife with more than she can handle.

I am sorry i do not know what the ground reality is but what he told me is that
the maid is there to do **all **the work of home (i think she is full time)… i am not sure about the kids part though as there was a time when they use to have two maid one full time and one half day, nowadays its just one i think…

Complains with parents is more of misbehave from time to time..

on the other hand i too do not think its all her fault so good advice for anyone is welcomed…