It all boils down to an individual, most men I’ve come across are decent and helpful, will hold the door open, carry my bags etc…and some won’t.
Clear example–on my flight to Pakistan, one uncle takes out my bag and puts his own there. After I gave him a verbal beatdown (oh yes Shaniqua was out in full force), the guy standing next to him put my bag back in there. Towards the end of the flight, I asked someone to take out my bag for me…so yeah, some guys are decent…