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What sort of girlfriend you want though?
You mean there are different kinds? Oops.
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Could you not go out in a mixed group? Takes the pressure off but you can still get to know someone..
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You dont need to go out with a girl to get to know each other. You can ask a family member or friend if they know of any girl that may have similar interests as you. You can communicate with her through electronic means and find out if she is a potential match. And by no means is Engagement a done deal which you cant back out from. One goes into engagement with a good heart, but if it doesnt work out then so be it.
Dating would usually not give you a meaningful result anyway, because most people would not show their ugly face when going on a date.
And besides all that, marriage is 90% compromise and 10% shared-interests. One has to be willing to change oneself for his/her spouse.
Sorry if i sound like an old fart.
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The fact that you live in Pakistan makes it harder. In North America, you could pick up girls anywhere. Anyway, why do you want to wait until 28 to get married? You claim to have a great career, a house, loads of cash.....these are all things most men want to achieve before they get married....seems to me like you are ready. Just ask your parents to find you a girl - get to know her for a few months and then get engaged and then wait another year or so to get married. If you claim to have all of the above then you would be considered a good catch (as long as you are good in the looks department also) in which case you should already have found someone...
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The fact that you live in Pakistan makes it harder. In North America, you could pick up girls anywhere. Anyway, why do you want to wait until 28 to get married? You claim to have a great career, a house, loads of cash.....these are all things most men want to achieve before they get married....seems to me like you are ready. Just ask your parents to find you a girl - get to know her for a few months and then get engaged and then wait another year or so to get married. If you claim to have all of the above then you would be considered a good catch (as long as you are good in the looks department also) in which case you should already have found someone...
Being good in the looks department doesn't count for jack. You just need a different kind a game when in Pakistan.
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Being good in the looks department doesn't count for jack. You just need a different kind a game when in Pakistan.
Enlighten us, please =)
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He means $$$$, cars, house
They often sing of this in pop songs - ghaari, bhangla, bank balance. The recipe for successful marriage.
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I would. But sadly I didn’t have no game either in Pakistan :halo:.
In school I was pretty clueless about these things.
And like the OP here I too studied engineering at college :p. So no girls there.
And work was a whole different kinda mess.
All I meant to say was that looks aren’t everything, especially when you’re a guy. Being tall and fit never hurt anybody but you can’t rely on just your looks to meet someone. And like anywhere in the world, trying to strike up a conversation with everyone you meet might help. And by everyone I mean everyone, regardless of how they look or what their social status is. Once you’ve got that down. Talking to a girl you like should not be a problem, cause you talk to everyone and anyone.
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vat u are so rich and dont have a garl? how so?
are u very very ugly?
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he wants a girlfriend....not a wife. he's only 24. that is quite a dilemma...is there a girl that you like in particular.. (with in your family frnds/at school/ around town?) i would start there. internet's always an option too. start chatting to a grls and eventually ask her if she'd like to meet up at serena (one of them is bound to say yes) or whatever that place is for a cup of coffee/drinks whichever they prefer in islamabad.
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The fact that you live in Pakistan makes it harder. In North America, you could pick up girls anywhere. Anyway, why do you want to wait until 28 to get married? You claim to have a great career, a house, loads of cash.....these are all things most men want to achieve before they get married....seems to me like you are ready. Just ask your parents to find you a girl - get to know her for a few months and then get engaged and then wait another year or so to get married. If you claim to have all of the above then you would be considered a good catch (as long as you are good in the looks department also) in which case you should already have found someone...
With marriage comes great responsibility and i'm just not ready for that. I want to enjoy my life to the fullest. I love hanging out with friends till late night. I love travelling and spend days in northern areas of Pakistan every now and then. I spend weekends with my friends watching movies and doing other stuff. Most of my friends are unmarried too. Once i get married, i'll have to change my routine and i don't think at this point of time, i'm ready for a change.
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vat u are so rich and dont have a garl? how so?
are u very very ugly?
I'm not ugly but not too good looking either. I'm tall (6'2), smart and got average looks.
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he wants a girlfriend....not a wife. he's only 24. that is quite a dilemma...is there a girl that you like in particular.. (with in your family frnds/at school/ around town?) i would start there. internet's always an option too. start chatting to a grls and eventually ask her if she'd like to meet up at serena (one of them is bound to say yes) or whatever that place is for a cup of coffee/drinks whichever they prefer in islamabad.
There are a couple of cute girls here in my sector but i can't go and talk to them openly because they are not related to me and it's against the norm.
Then there is this hot internee in Standard Chartered Bank. I took courage to talk to her, i started talking about life assurance and stuff (to get a start) but she she pointed her finger towards bank manager and asked me to talk to him for information.
I've tried internet/chat rooms too. Most of the girls there are from Karachi and lahore. Aur jo Islamabad ki hoti hain wo reply he nai krti.
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There are a couple of cute girls here in my sector but i can't go and talk to them openly because they are not related to me and it's against the norm.
Then there is this hot internee in Standard Chartered Bank. I took courage to talk to her, i started talking about life assurance and stuff (to get a start) but she she pointed her finger towards bank manager and asked me to talk to him for information.
I've tried internet/chat rooms too. Most of the girls there are from Karachi and lahore. Aur jo Islamabad ki hoti hain wo reply he nai krti.
Do any of your friends have girlfriends? If not try befriending guys who have girlfriends? Once you do that, you'll eventually meet their girlfriends. And then you could ask them to introduce you to your friends. And don't forget to tell them you have money but no one to spend it on.
I know it seems kinda arduous, but it has better chances of working than just saying hi to girls. Not that you should give up on that. What happened with the internee was normal. I hope you thanked her for helping you out, because she did help you by telling you who to talk to.
Start doing what you did with the internee (talked) with anybody you can (not just the hot ones). And you'll get better at it over time. One reason she redirected you to the manager might be nervousness on your part or you just didn't seem comfortable talking to her or she probably didn't know anything about life insurance.
Nothing you can't fix with practice.
Internet chat rooms are a waste of time. Nothing will come of them.
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Tell your parents you want to get married and then you will have something much better than a girlfriend and it will be halal too.
Good luck
THAT ^