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Paa Jee, If you are forced to move on and she is not interested, if she lives in the same city as you, how would you face her if you see her at a desi event?
I'm actually in a similar situation and I also don't know what the person is thinking but if they are making it such a mystery about their feelings, then most likely they are not interested. When someone is really interested whether it's a guy or a girl, they make some effort to show it either nonverbal or verbal.
Can you help me too please? How would you face her if you have to see her again after having your heart broken?
I'm going to ignore her and thank my faristhay I was saved from a failed marriage.
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buri adat na dalo ;)
She is probably showing you her "sharif" side.
Ain't nothing "Shareef" about her mate. You don't know her.
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Paa jee, as most of the posters commented she is just kahanian karaeng to you. See you need to understand how this whole thing works for girls. They run this whole guy-hunting thing as a camapaign. And they are always on multi-thread processing mode so you are just one thread among all. They'll keep on skimming the "prospects" and as soon as they see a microscopic wrong thing that doesnt suit them, you are out of their league and then comes the phase of "excuses" one of which she has just said to you. They use these excuses like the Ace-cards which in this case they dont only have four, rather all 52 are aces.
Does it hurt, yes but the quicker you suck it up, the better it is!
SOME girls legit just like the attention.
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lol, please enlighten me on her “shareefness”
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Are you triggered mate?
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lol, no, I just genuinely want to know... what did you learn, from a girl that you were talking too, that doesn't make her shareef? Most girls will try to keep up an appearance, that wont shed light on things that make them look bad, same for guys too honestly. Especially when talking to risthas.
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lol, no, I just genuinely want to know... what did you learn, from a girl that you were talking too, that doesn't make her shareef? Most girls will try to keep up an appearance, that wont shed light on things that make them look bad, same for guys too honestly. Especially when talking to risthas.
You gotta do your legwork... IG, FB, etc. It's not always in what they say...
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hmm, what if they are tech savvy? and make their IG private and keep their facebook on the lock down? I doubt many people will add a potential ristha as a friend on fb/IG, maybe after a couple of months during the ristha process but even that is rare, I think.
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If they're tech saavy then they're smart. Also, they can add potential rishtas to a limited group on FB so they can only see certain things. I do that with family.
