bcoz Allah has to give u the child, itz not something in our hands…who knows that after a year or 2 (as many of guppans have mentiond this time) when u r prepared for the child (though i dun get this preparation thing), u get to know that there are sum medical problems or something like that, i mean itz not something u plan , itz planned by Allah..
and then understanding each other or inlaws, u need time bla bla ..i think u cant understand ur husband or ur inlaws even if u spend the whole life with them…