No celebration

[hareem01]

Re: No celebration

@Chameli420

Seems like noone from my family is coming when my first baby is born. Mum is going to Pakistan for my ex-husband’s wedding who happens to be a maternal cousin!my 2 sisters are already there for the wedding as he is my one ssiter’s BIL and the other sister’s husband is also a maternal cousin of both us and the groom (my ex!!)

My 2 other siblings cant come due to their exams which I understand. but I just cant get over the fact that the rest chose to travel to Pakistan and be there for the wedding instead of sharing the biggest happiness of my life!!!

I have been so patient with my family for so long but this time I just feel like making a huge fuss and never speak to them again . but I know I wont be doing it…so just letting it all out here on GS!!

I felt that they didnt really share my happiness when I got married either. I spent every penny myself, even their airline tickets for coming to the walima as I got married out of country. I paid of every damn gift for my in-laws and every expense of the wedding. Didnt get any gifts when hubby and I moved to our first home that we bought together and didnt get my salamis eithers from the wedding as my mum thinks that it was her ‘lein dein’ that was returned from her friends and aquintances. At that time I didnt pay much attention to it cuz my family isnt very well-off and I was in a well paid job. 2 yrs later my only bro got married and I was chocked to see where the money came from and how they overspent on everything.
I was sad cuz of the discriminative behaviour of my parents…

Now I am just devastated that they are not coming for my baby’s birth and expect me to travel to them once they are all back from Pakistan when the baby will be perhaps 3 weeks old and both me and baby will need rest and not unnecessary stress and travel.
I just cant get over it…this was their time to show that they really care and they really are there for me and my baby and celebrate our happiness.

I have never in my life felt so alone…let down by family and so many so-called friends..that I just want to stay away from every single human being from now on…

give tit for tat.

Don’t take the baby to see them when they’re back. If they love you they’ll come to see you first.