^ that's totally true...and totally understandable...if that's the case do it's fine...
another thing that happened recently was that the ppl had a BABY SHOWER where they got a bunch of gifts then they had a AQUIQA...where the table is filled with gifts AGAIN...now both parties had the same ppl almost....so shouldn't they have put "no box gifts" on the aquiqa invitation?? (because one family had to give 2 gift to the same ppl!)
(because in another recent party, there was a nikka where ppl gave money and gifts, but right after the dad passed away so they decided not to do any other party...but when the id-dat of the mother was done they did a Walimaa, where they put "no box gifts", possibly because they got enough gifts in the Nikka...so what do u guys think???)