it goes without saying that the vast majority of people coming to your wedding will bring a gift…chances are it will be something they can afford…be it a small amount of cash or what you may consider a cheap, tacky glassware set…don’t be turning your nose up at it…don’t complain about it.
if you don’t like it…donate it to some charity that will accept items instead of cash…they will thank you profusely and they will find someone that will appreciate it.
if someone comes without a gift…don’t complain about having to pay for their “butt on that seat”…you weren’t holding a theatrical masterpiece for which you needed to charge a ticket fee…or were you?
