Apparently you care enough to go out of your way to insult people who choose to use this practice.
Im not wrong. You need to get out more, obviously. But your personal issues are not my problem.
One more thing, you are NO ONE…absolutely NO ONE to judge or say what is right or wrong. You dont make those rules so saying its wrong or right…is not your place.
Dont do it at your own wedding but everyone else’s choice is definitely NOT your business.
Ummm…GJ…no one’s feelings are hurt. If anyone’s, it would be the people who are SO extremely bent out of shape over reading these invites. I had no idea their delicate sensibilities were getting so shattered by these invitations. Maybe the happy couple should know so they can save money, time and space for more gracious guests.
Next time, please do us all a favor. Let the couple know you feel this way rather than harboring these negative feelings against them and actually going to their affairs. Why be ashamed of saying how you feel if its so right? Why give in to this supposed “tacky” behavior? Why support it?
Actions speak louder than words and apparently your reasoning isnt strong enough for you to stand by.
Totally agree. I had no idea people actually put so much thought into this. It’s just an invitation which was given to you out of love and respect. They want your presence and I am sure don’t care much about gifts. They just don’t want to get a million toasters and wall clocks.