Why not just give ur unwanted gifts to charity? Wats the big deal… if you really dont care about money then why not state ‘no cash or boxed gifts’, maybe then people wont feel obliged to pay you that tenner 
Why not just give ur unwanted gifts to charity? Wats the big deal… if you really dont care about money then why not state ‘no cash or boxed gifts’, maybe then people wont feel obliged to pay you that tenner