okay guys a related dilemma… what if you want to take the “no boxed gifts” to the next step… in that I only want cash.. hard cash… no cheques. cheques can bounce. please suggest a classy way to word the above desired setup, thanks.
plus is it tacky to appoint someone to count the cash as the guests roll in and give up the dough? it might be a good idea to have a running total of the gifts collected at the front of the room to keep track of the PnL.