Re: No boxed gifts please
oh no honey. I am definately not worried. If anything it should be all of you girls who should be worried because it's you guys thinking on what to write on the invite.
Clearly, throughout the thread people did not want gifts because of duplicate or cheapness... and NOT because of the "blessings" thought.
haha okay, it seemed that way because you were saying how horrified you were at my response =) and by the way, im not 'one of the girls here' who are losing sleep over what to write on the card, i already mentioned above it doesn't matter to me or my family. if people choose not to bring something, that's their choice and i don't think they should be judged.
Then this whole topic would not have originated. The mere fact that "you" intend to get CASH instead of gift - just shows that "your" heart desires MONEY so you can go pick out something of your CHOICE - ! simple as that. You are NOT writing on the invite - give us your blessings. You are stating CLEARLY - NO BOXED gift - which means CASH only.
you seem to be missing the point. not everyone here is saying they want cash so let's not generalize. there are people who are okay with not receiving anything such as subbo said.