Re: no backbone?
Dont all gasp at once now…but his ex wife is actually my cousin :o so, in answering your questions, yes i do know her very well, and had I felt that his first marriage was a failure because of him, I would never have had considered him… now this gets interesting…it was the second time she got married, her first marriage didnt work for the same reasons her second marriage didnt work -------> she didnt want to leave her boyfriend, even after she got married! Its something she openly admitted to!
(gosh, this must be begining to sound like some indian drama) 