Re: no backbone?
That was the first thing I said to him too “is this your brother trying to create another drama?” but he reassured me saying that his brother has nothing to do with this now. he has come back to me on his own accord, BIL doesnt know he has spoken to me again.
Part of me wants to firgive me because I really really liked (maybe even love?) the guy, and because he wants this so badly now that its making me think he has elarnt a valuable lesson from this. But at the same time it is not so easy to forgive and forget what has happend. I feel as if I might regret it later if I dont give him another chance… it seems as the last few weeks where we havent spoken, it has made him realise my value and appreciate what he had.
I have tried to walk away from him but I cant do it. Its painful.