Re: no backbone?
[quote=“Reha, post:9, topic:229210”]
My father passed away 6 years ago so its just my mum. my mum wasnt keen on this rishta at all. Infact I should mention here that 4 years ago, my BIL and his family had asked for my rishta and even then mum had said no to them because she didnt want two daughters in one household…just incase if one’s marriage failed it would affect the other ones… I am an idiot for thinking that things will be any different!!! I should have listened to my mum!!! Mum is on my side and she too says i had a lucky escape… BUT my older sister and BIL are willing to bend over backwards to make me “budnaam”!!! as they said to me today. BIL’s words were" you didnt marry my brother so I am not going to leave you worthy of marrying anyone else, I am going to make you bay-izat, i will do your badnaami in front of every one, you will have no choice but to leave this town, your life will be ruined"…