no backbone?

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Re: no backbone?

@mistral

Deep down inside (unless they’re completely brain dead and emotionless), they realize what a successful person you are and what a catch YOU would have been. Their egos are wounded, which is normal, but instead of dealing with this in a mature way, they are trying to soothe their hurt pride by putting you down and making you out to be the one who is “missing out.”

Don’t let them suck you in to the negativity. You already realize your self worth. Now all you need to do is live your life - enjoy it and do worthwhile and satisfying things. And just be patient and careful when it comes time once again to consider potential rishtas. Above all, have faith in Allah SWT and keep expectations only of Him. Inshallah, you’re going to have a great life with a great partner at your side…don’t for one second fall for the garbage your BILs and your sister are trying to shove off on you.

InshAllah I will meet someone who is worthy of my love and companionship! I am glad that things have turned out the way they have, better see their true faces now than later! What would have happend later? another divorce? or me bearing all the sufferings out of fear of another divorce??

i did istikhara on the night of lailatulqadar, I asked Allah to show me the right way because i had serious doubts about this whole situation! Literally the next day, everything came to an end! MashAllah!! I am very happy about the outcomes! Although annoyed about their childish behaviours and frustrated at how they are venting off their steam, the main fact remains that I have seen their true colours and I choose not to put myself through that!

allhamdulillah! indeed this pain is short lived compared to the life long of what I would have suffered, had i been married to him!!! I cant not thank All Mighty enough