Its painful to see my sister being married to someone like this man…all his efforts are being put towards making me look like a stupid person! The fact remains that BIL is sat with a bruised ego, he genuienly felt that no one would ever say no to his brother! By getting me married to their brother, their main motive was to PROVE to his ex wife that he can get married again because apparently she had said to him that no other woman will get married to him again…I should have seen the warning bells ringing then really..that they seemed more worried about proving a petty point to his ex wife… i often told him that is not a good reason to get married again and if he is marrying me it should be for genuine reasons, not to prove his point to his ex wife! Oh how foolish, I should have backed off then when this happend…