no backbone?

[diamond321]

Re: no backbone?

@mistral

Deep down inside (unless they’re completely brain dead and emotionless), they realize what a successful person you are and what a catch YOU would have been. Their egos are wounded, which is normal, but instead of dealing with this in a mature way, they are trying to soothe their hurt pride by putting you down and making you out to be the one who is “missing out.”

Perfect analysis !

I have lived with such people and they think & behave the way mistral has said above. They are satisfying their ego at your expense. They are making themselves feel better and look better by making you a bad person.