I cant even wish for anything bad to happen to my BIL, despite everything he is doing, because my sister is in that house. if I wish anything bad upon him, i am wishing that upon my sister and neice and nephew too… i just want them to leave me and my family alone and let us get on with our life… I cant even look my mum in the eye yet, that is how ashamed I am about this whole situation…the atmoshpere in my house is so cold, its awful!!