thats the point…when engagment break girl side honor & respect is more hurting than boy side…so why not knowing & adopt be4 anything happen in proposal time then after knowing eachother then nikah to have islamic relation for more details till wedding to adopt rest issues???
why to be engaged to know eachother that if anything happen girl side will be in worry always for girls future???
if u come to know main things abt him be4 anything then after nikah if details have pro as ur main is same u can solve it also u will feel more response to keep respect & not break it easily for small issues…
wats uur idea?
look at this also :
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/wedding/391110-love-arranged-marriage.html
…i meant to get result by answers but no one did reply the main abt how to know Him!!!