Nikkah Now and Marriage later ?

What? No offense but all scholars of Islam say that when Nikah is performed, the man and woman become husband and wife! "rukhsati" or consummation of marriage, nobody needs to know! It's between the husband n wife.. You can have the walima take place anytime after the nikkah, don't have to have a "rukhsati" ceremony like we do in our culture.

"sex", it's all private, let it be private. So what if people have sex after nikkah, it's their choice and all halal. and yes walima is neccesary...