Nikkah is MARRIAGE

[Ashy2010]

Re: Nikkah is MARRIAGE

@stoppit

Completely agree. This was the case with me. As far as myself and my family were concerned, our nikkah = marriage. But as far as his parents were concerned, especially his mother, it was no more than an engagement (she even introduced me as his fiance after the nikkah). Those few weeks post the nikkah where I stayed in there house were *very *weird. When I came back, people kept asking when the Rukhsati is.

Nikkah in Islam is very simple, you don’t even need an Imam to perform it. Even Walima isn’t a farz; it’s good that people do this sunnah but it’s not in the same vein as it was intended. In fact, Islamically, if there is a gathering taking place after the nikkah, this constitutes a walima. People have constructed all this other stuff for god knows what reason. Like so what if you have the nikkah and don’t start living together?? Why should that mean you still have to be strangers with one another?

I guess you are not meant to stay with the in-laws after just the nikah? At least it does not commonly happen in our desi society.