Re: Nikkah is MARRIAGE
But 2-4 years is too much. If the guy is a citizen, it would not take 2-4 years as per my knowledge. 6 months is enough I guess for citizens to apply for wife’s green card. If the guy himself is on green card, it might take him much longer. Then 2-4 years wait makes sense. The guy should be sincere with the girl and her family about the time he will be taking before the rukhsati is done because it will be hell for the girl and family waiting for the rukhsati and keep hanging in the middle for no specific time period.