Nikkah before Rukhsati - Intimacy allowed?

STA · October 6, 2011, 1:40pm

Re: Nikkah before Rukhsati - Intimacy allowed?

^^ LOL

To be honest, I think it would be really hard for me to have my nikkah done yet still have to live at home. As much as I wish I could spend more time with the fiance and travel with him and whatnot, ultimately getting my nikkah done ahead of time is not really the best option for me. It’s something I consider when I feel especially frustrated and really wish things could move along and we can hurry up and get married, but at the end of the day, I want to have my nikkah done and have rukhsati at the same time. Besides, I know FOR SURE that my family and his family wouldn’t be supportive of having nikkah done early anyway - it’s a battle I would never win.

Thanks for your advice everyone. GroomDoc, you’re right in that sabar ka phal meetha hai. And Ms. Bholi Bhali, you’re right and I have to focus on enjoying umarried life while I still can!

to kiya ham nay tumhain kuch galat bataya.