Re: …Nikah vs. Engagement…
That’s the way it’s done in my family in pak… This jan my cousin got married after a quick two month engagement. the day of the barat, she was upstairs in her room, and the guy n his family came, and she asked me “woh pyara hai?” I was like 
..like u jump into such a huge commitment, agreeing to marry him and u dont even have the faintest idea if he’s good looking??? 
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