my in-laws have been very rude with my parents, they are sly and very cunning. we have only figured this out in the past few weeks as the wedding planning has started. they are creating problems out of thin air, insulted my parents to their face, are talking badly about them behind their backs, rejected my parents' gifts, and to top it off are acting as tho we are to blame.
we have not said one bad word to them, and have been nothing but gentle to them in response to their sudden rudeness.
however i am in love with their son, who is totally normal. he is extremely embarrassed and sorry about his parent's erratic behaviour, but there isnt much he can do.
has anyone had any similar experiences? is it worth it in the end? i dont have to live with them, but i will have to see them every few weeks. and knowing what they did, i wonder if ill be able to forgive them for disrespecting my parents so badly?
i feel so down and upset, and my parents just want to walk away from the whole situation.
Then you are in big trouble, coz if he can't do anything now he will not do anything later when they will be very rude to you.
Tell him to get his parents right ro forget about it.