sana i feel really bad for u..but such times do come in our lives and then we have to take a firm stand ...mine was also a love marriage but issues were raised a lot...and i loved the guy but at the same time i left everything to my parents that if u say yes then ok i wud do it else no way...bcz our parents r more experienced...what they see we can't...
in ur case...ur fiance sounds to be like still a baby for his mother ...and such guys don't grow up even after marriage...believe me...if he is not handling his parents now he won't do it later as well...so u dont need to immediately withdraw....ask ur mom to call ur MIL and ask her why r u doing this all? have we done anything which u don't like then simply say to us... remember this relationship is not with ur husband only ..its between 2 families...ur parents brought u up..did all the things for u and now only for a guy u r bearing all the insult for ur parents...not right...
ask ur mom call her and ask her decently,nicely...tell whats the problem...even if she doesn't sound good or blames ur parents for nothing ..then it wouldn't be good in future as well...its better to withdraw dear...its not the end of ur life...
there is a mistake at ur aprents end as well..the first time ur in-laws talked to them badly they should have not been quiet...i am not saying that apk parents ussk sath burra boltay ya krtay but at least aram say baat kr k b musla hul shoukta hai...so just do it...ager abi stand nai logi to u wud suffer ur whole life...
Uetian- my freind spoken like a trooper- a similar expereince I know of- the boy ( despite u love him and he u) just doesnt have the BALLS to fight for the woman he loves .. ( and thats not his "&!!** mother!)!!!! Here Here I say!!!! End result- two hearts broken ( one defintely a heart and a soul- the other - a weak heart with no soul)