Nice Girl Syndrome

[canadiandesigirl]

Re: Nice Girl Syndrome

@Milly

I think people get confused between ‘good’ and ‘nice’

Nice people are nice when they need to be and want to be. Anyone can be nice, it’s quite easy, you just BC everyone all of the time.

A good person knows when to let go of small issues, is willing to ‘sacracfice’ a smaller issue as they can see the bigger picture and will say what needs to be said when it needs to be said to those who need to hear it.

I’ve been known to be a ‘people pleaser’ and yes, maybees I do like to make others happy, but I dont sacrafice my happiness to make others happy. If I can do something for someone and it doesnt kill me, what’s the harm. Im not going to stop doing what I do just cos others don’t do the same for me.

I agree, I don’t see a harm in pleasing others as long as one doesn’t sacrifice their own happiness.