Are ur husbands friends doctors, actually not just docs, are they ORTHO docs?
If u had listened to the dr and done the treatment u would have been done with it aur baby would be fine too, instead its the same old cycle with u.
Parh likh kr bhi kuch nahi sekha
yes one of them is a doctor . i had listened to the dt carefully, thats ehy i removed her plaster. it was doctors advice to remove the plaster in case of any discomfort .. she was screaming n crying icontineously .. now i myself will take her to the doctor and will start her treatment. everyone is angry at me but my husband is not allowing me for plaster i am forced n strucked .. my situation is like crying .. how can i make him understand that plaster is a painless treatment for her foot .
That is a really touch spot to be in. Can your in laws or parents help in this regard? You really need to treat this matter with urgency. Poinseti is done in first few weeks of life and you have wasted so much Time. Your husband needs to realise that doing nothing will leave your child with life long deformity. You are burdening your child needlessly. You will know better than anyone else living in Pakistan how badly disabled people are treated/ why would you let your child go through
you are still thinking about and wondering about what to do?
your husband wont give you the money? … well i guess that’s why i am an advocate for women getting themselves educated and employed so this helpless dependency goes away … short term solution: perhaps you can ask your parents for help? long term: get a job lady and teach your daughter to be emotionally and financially independent.
think of it this way … if you dont get the correct treatment now … then in 3-4 yrs you will be here writing a thread bout how your daughter is depressed/crying because she cant run/play with friends, and then about how school kids are mean to her and then 20-22 yrs from now you will be writing about her not getting rishtas or being rejected because of her foot. is that what you/your husband want?
yes you all are right and i m educated i cant go for job because my husband won't allow me for any job.. mu father has passed away my mother can't afford her plaster charges but she will suport me .. again my husband doesn't allow me for any help from my family. he had stopped me from doing anything , what should i do now ?? finally he is agreed for plaster but dr is waiting for her cold issue , i am regularly going for nebolise
yes you all are right and i m educated i cant go for job because my husband won't allow me for any job.. mu father has passed away my mother can't afford her plaster charges but she will suport me .. again my husband doesn't allow me for any help from my family. he had stopped me from doing anything , what should i do now ?? finally he is agreed for plaster but dr is waiting for her cold issue , i am regularly going for nebolise
Saniya,
Your daughter's health should come first for you. Getting her the best treatment possible at the time she needs should be your primary concern - nothing else.
hmmmm, dr has given us date for her surgery after 2 weeks .. how long will it take ? dr syed shahid noor is a good ortho but he doesnt give much time , i had many questions to ask but he was in hurry n saying jb treatment start kren gy tb ye sub discuss hojae ga
IA, everything will be fine. I used to live in Karachi too and had major surgeries there and those too at good but not hifi expensive hospitals like Agha Khan still the outcomes were very good Alhumdulillah. Even here in USA they told me, whoever did your surgery did an excellent job. So it's not like doctors in Pakistan are not good. You have consulted another doctor and thank God your husband has also agreed. Keep us updated. Prayers for you and your daughter.
She is under treatment send love and prayers for her... She was all disturbed I couldn't sleep , Dr told me that he will decide it after 4 casts about surgery weather they will do it or not ... She could not move her leg
So she's in the casting process right now? How many have you done so far?
Clubfoot is easily treatable now without surgery.
This is a bit personal but my son was also born with club foot...he's on his 4th cast and doing great. Yes, they cry initially when you put it on but the crying subsides after the first day. We will probably do another 2 or 3 and then get him special shoes to wear at night so that it doesn't return.
I hope your daughter is doing okay...try not to let your husband's friends influence you two...stick to what the docs are telling you to do.
She is under treatment send love and prayers for her... She was all disturbed I couldn't sleep , Dr told me that he will decide it after 4 casts about surgery weather they will do it or not ... She could not move her leg
May Allah swt make the process easy on your daughter as well as on you, ameen!
Same for you Reha!
