Re: New generation's marriage issues
u know---if so many more women think that way that those men are any less "men" then we (women) seriouosly have NO RIGHT to complain if men are only interested in beautiful/young women. When you reduce man to being a cash cow or demean him for not being as settled, that is no different than him reducing you to a sex object and throwing you away for the next attractive woman.
while i would say that alot of the girls who do get married to guys from pak have family pressure/insistence behind it (mind you NOT force!), they also have alot of support too, in that the parents will help support the couple, that might not be there in a different situation..I agree that it's not an ideal situation, and no doubt it's rough--but face it, we're not in an ideal world. Good times and bad times come and go, I think it's better to build your life together than to have it all at once, take it for granted and lose it.
I remember this discussion took place a few years ago, one woman (I forget her username now) posted about how if a guy is well educated, decent, and has lots of potential to succeed, then why shouldn't she help him reach his goals, given that they are compatible in every other way?