Dildirani got it right.
If you want to break it down, there’s really only 2 reasons that a girl would not want to marry a guy from pakistan.
- They don’t want to struggle to settle down. The immigration process isn’t easy by any means. Most often a guy from overseas will have a hard time finding a job (then again nowadays who doesnt!) b/c their education simply isn’t enough–many of my friends fathers (including my own), and their own husbands were educated back in Pakistan but obviously weren’t able to ge ta job in that same field. Often times couples from differnet countries have to spend time apart b/c of immigration issues. It’s not easy.
Of course anything can happen in life and one should be prepared, you can very well struggle to settle down with someone born/raised here, but I still think its a pretty good reason for someoen to eliminate prospects from other countries.
- They think the gusy are “fobby”, backwards/illiterate, will keep them locked up etc. This is either based on immaturity and narrowmindedness..or they have unfortunate enough to be around the scummiest of men.
If it’s an arranged marriage, I wouldn’t blaem someone for eliminating a rishta b/c of reason #1, simply out of convenience.