Lots of insensitive posts here. Someone is suffering and in the midst of a truly heartbreaking situation and some of you have the audacity to complain about how long it is?
Even better are those of you who are giving advice without reading the entire post.
If you can't help the poster, go to another thread. Debate something really original and worthy of your time. I'm sure there's a real scintillating discussion about love marriages versus arranged marriages that could really use your enlightened opinion.
Lets leave this topic for those of us who have the time, capacity and genuine concern for helping this unfortunate individual.
I sooooooooo agree. I was insenstitive in the beginnning, and then I realized how awful this whole situation was- I couldn't stop thinking about it the WHOLE NIGHT! This could happen to any of us! Basically the idiot screwed up this girl's life. Anyways I really think, as the majority of the posters, she needs to divorce this guy and move on to a better life. Allah will reward her for her suffering she;s so paitiently handled!