Need ur advice and prayers during this hard ttime...

[Reha]

Re: Need ur advice and prayers during this hard ttime…

@SweetLady

^^^ well if my parents knew that these idiots would b like this, the would never ever think about doin or givin the rishta/nikah. Koi bhi maa baap apni aulad ko jahanum key gharey meyn nai phenkta. Yeh to fams key ander ja ker pata chalta hey key loag kese heyn! So don’t blame my parents! Unho ney apni taraf sey acha khaandaan dhoonda tha apni beti key liye… Now if the boy or his fam turns out to b wolfs in woman’s cloths, humara ya parents ka kya kasoor??

Raha jahez ka sawaal… Humarey khandaan ki rivayat hey key beti ko yeh cheezeyn deyn. My other sister also got married with a boy out of pk… And ma shaa allah she is happy, he never ever took a cent from my sister and paid all the expenses himself. So yeah…

So instead of seeking faults or blaming my parents, plz just give advice or suggestions.

Humaray khandaan ki rivayat hai ke beti ko aqal, education aur deeni taleem uske maan baap usko dein. And I am really serious about that last statement. Now on to the more unpleasant things. Do you hear yourself? You sound like a Star Plus drama and this is not the way educated people behave or talk. I am not trying to be mean here but really read your posts…people who have common sense don’t talk that way. I can only imagine this as a scene from Humsafar or something. If the priority of your parents lies in loading their daughters in order to buy respect…then I don’t understand what the complaints are about. Your sister’s inlaws are only demanding according to the examples YOU guys have set. Please try to understand that this is not coming out of the blue…you guys had signs but didn’t read them. Anyone who thinks buying their son in laws a home and furnishing it is a great thing to do…its not. Husband and wife need to build their OWN lives…even if it means struggling a little bit to get what they want.