Need ur advice and prayers during this hard ttime...

[SweetLady]

Re: Need ur advice and prayers during this hard ttime…

@psyah

Peace SweetLadyMy advice is too late … I don’t believe in jahez, if it is given to the daughter then it should not be in her in-laws house … And if it was in their house they are not the owners of it unless she gives it to them as a gift. What should be done now? Speak up … Tell the boy’s parents that they need to contribute to the marriage effort as well or people will think of them as konjus, that always gets people …especially those who are concerned about their image***. But you sister is only nikkafied and no rukhsati has been done, which means a divorce will still leave her as a kawari*** … Get rid of him and his family now … Or make them reciprocate using their weakness.

Well initially the jahez was given in the uk (so the full furnished house were my sis and her hubby would start a new life together, it was meant to be a gift from my parents to my sister. But my sisters inlaws demanded also jahez in pk ..which my parents agreed on, to prevent other disturbences in the proces..

Larkey key parents neyn saaf saaf keh diya hey key woh visey key pesey nai dengey, it’s against their asools ( i don’t understand what their asools are but okay)… yeh log sirf kanjoos nai, intehayi ghatiya en kameeney insan heyn… joh apney betey ki keemat lagwa rahey heyn

looking at the nikahfied and no rukhsati s done, would that mean that in a future nikah she will be quoted as “Talaak Yafta” or as single?