Need ur advice and prayers during this hard ttime...

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Re: Need ur advice and prayers during this hard ttime…

@SweetLady

^^^ well if my parents knew that these idiots would b like this, the would never ever think about doin or givin the rishta/nikah. Koi bhi maa baap apni aulad ko jahanum key gharey meyn nai phenkta. Yeh to fams key ander ja ker pata chalta hey key loag kese heyn! So don’t blame my parents! Unho ney apni taraf sey acha khaandaan dhoonda tha apni beti key liye… Now if the boy or his fam turns out to b wolfs in woman’s cloths, humara ya parents ka kya kasoor??Raha jahez ka sawaal… Humarey khandaan ki rivayat hey key beti ko yeh cheezeyn deyn. My other sister also got married with a boy out of pk… And ma shaa allah she is happy, he never ever took a cent from my sister and paid all the expenses himself. So yeah…So instead of seeking faults or blaming my parents, plz just give advice or suggestions.

Peace SweetLadyMy advice is too late … I don’t believe in jahez, if it is given to the daughter then it should not be in her in-laws house … And if it was in their house they are not the owners of it unless she gives it to them as a gift. What should be done now? Speak up … Tell the boy’s parents that they need to contribute to the marriage effort as well or people will think of them as konjus, that always gets people …especially those who are concerned about their image. But you sister is only nikkafied and no rukhsati has been done, which means a divorce will still leave her as a kawari … Get rid of him and his family now … Or make them reciprocate using their weakness.