Need ur advice and prayers during this hard ttime...

[SweetLady]

Re: Need ur advice and prayers during this hard ttime…

@Twinklestar

^^doing rishtas is very very difficult. ***May Allah give all of our parents an relatives himmat and Hikmaat to proceed properly. ***

I agree please stop with the blame game. Hindsight is always 20/20. I don’t think your parents or sister is to blame. Many ppl in general have became LAICHI (greedy). Was this dude worth all this trouble? Is he educated or exceptionally good looking, great family background etc. there is a possibility that his family wants out of this rishta. Maybe he or they are interested elsewhere or he doesn’t want to MOVE to UK. if that is the case - then it is definitely good to end it now. Your sister will be fine and she will find somebody better . But if this is a case of miscommunication where the boys is willing to honor his COMMITTMENT buy his family is the problem then it could still work. Don’t take what is posted on fb too seriously. Anybody could open a Facebook acct. rishtas stuff should not be done online. Go with your instincts . Your parents are trying their best a d u fortunately these are some of the problems parents face when their kids grow up. Best of Luck!

Ameen!

I am not sure what they have in mind, my sister told me today that her SIL (the boy’s sister) told her a few months after her Nikah, that she should apply his Visa, so that he can come to uk… They could life in and marry after 4/5 years! My sister told her that she ain’t gonn do that… SO i don’t know what this all is about, but i do think key lalach hi in key dil meyn kood raha hey. My bhabi said that shaid woh sirf yahan settle honey key liye kar rahey they itney dramey..

The boy is choosing completely the side of his parents… He doesn’t even want to talk about anything! My brother tried to talk with him (to know what his opinion is about all this and what he wants) u know what he said? “yeh sab ab parents hi discuss kareynge, i will tell abu” WTHEL!! it is a grown up dude, but is behaving like a teenager!

He ain’t that good looking, looks more like a skeleton without ny flesh on him… He is educated (has done MBA) but my sis has done her masters to, so that ain’t the point.

I think the point is also with his sister… She is not married yet, is almost 30 years, and the complete fam does what she asks or tells them to do or say…( i might be wrong… but somehow …)