Re: need to vent
Aside from the child sleeping in the bedroom, can you guys see a marriage counselor? If you are in Pakistan, some physciatrists also help in such issues. I can understand that you want your husband to share your bedroom, but I have seen many couples who still have a barely speaking relatuonship even if they do share a bed. By all means, work on yourdaugther's independence but don't think its the solution to all your probelms.
soni27-its sad thaT DESI GUYS are considered mamas boys. does that mean that the rest of the male population living in the uk/america/everywhere else are NOT....ive seen boys here cling on to their mothers even after a certain age....ive also seen the oppsite..where the boys have lost all respect for their mothers and treat them badly just to look like he loves the wife more...to his wife...
consider koi kare ya na kare..it is a fact..im not saying its is good or that it is bad..im saying that is the ways things are mostly so y not accept this and find smart ways to deal with it instead of crying and whining..no desi guy..doesnt matter where he is will appreciate his wife whing and crying and compalining about his family..it just doesnt sit well with them..after a while when theya re only hearing negative thigns from their wife's mouth about their family they will start to hate her..
think about it if ur husband kept comlaining aobut ur family 24/7..will u not feel resentment for him..i know i would..u dont have to like ur in laws but u have to keep ur mouth shut in front of him..simple not rocket science..i dont understand y u women keep hitting ur head against the wall..y not try to act intelligent instead..why get educated if u cant use ur head?
Re: need to vent
whatever u do, dont move the toddler bed in ur room.
If ur gonna take the step of getting her a bed, make it a positive step and move her into her own room. Make it special.. make it feel like she wants it to. She will soon start loving her own environment
regardless of all the family issues you have going on... your husband and you need time together to be intimate.. and if ur in two separate rooms or have a kid in the room.. it aint gonna work
Re: need to vent
Get her a larger crib, like MIAinVA said… a toddler bed. Keep putting your daughter in the toddler bed to get her used to it. If she’s used to sleeping next to you, then after she falls asleep, put her in the toddler bed. It’ll be larger than the crib, so she’ll have more room to move around and less likely to wake up in the middle of the night.
But at least your husband is now talking to you and trying to understand your position :k:
Re: need to vent
wat u guys can do is....
* u sleep in ur daughters crib with her n then move out once she's asleep
*hubby n u sleep on each other
*u guys sleep in cribs while baby sleeps on dbl bed
OK seriously its more than abt sleeping together. u should find other ways to bond together.... :)