^^that is a very fyne piece of advice…
someone close would know about 80-90 percent of wats going on, while we probably know no more than 10-50 percent… but in the long run only the OP knows her situation 100% she can listen all the advice she gets from anyone…and evaluate which advice would work in her suggestion..no one can do this evaluation better than her…the only challenge would be keeping her emotions out and evaluating which advice suits her situation in essentially a clinical manner